I don't see the connection

I watched the Don't Judge Me video by Chris Brown for the first time today, and I ABSOLUTELY don't get the premise of how the video connects with the lyrics. Don't get me wrong, it's a FANTASTIC song and a moving videos just can't see the link. If they stood alone they would be equally as great but with no bridge to connect them it falls flat to me. I mean, I have watched probably 10 times to see the connections and I'm not getting them yet. Maybe I will if I look closer as I watch it.