One thing I'm definitely no longer used to or really good at is courting. It's been so long since I've had genuine interest in anyone that I literally fumble over my actions and get hyper-excited about talking to a woman. Then comes the "coming off too strong" sentiment which is something I've never actually been able to grasp.
Women want a man to show interest and for them to be the only one he wants, then get annoyed/standoffish when he shows true interest. They want effort but get alarmed when the effort is "too much" yet don't want a man to not show them that he cares or wants them. It is contentious at best and leaves me beyond confused about the paradox I see. I really like her, but I'm "coming off too strong" by texting and communicating ... Which is what Women claim they want, but don't appreciate when they have it right in front of them.
I'm not sure how to navigate these newly charted waters for me. Do I continue to court her ... Or do I back off completely, do I try and find a middle ground?
The trouble with girls is actually finding what they want. I thought I knew ... But I have absolutely no clue.
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